Following is the full text of philosopher Albert Hobohm’s talk titled “How to stop your thoughts from controlling your life” at TEDxKTH conference. In this talk, Hobohm shows us our critical situation as a species and how to start taking control over our mental operating systems.
Albert Hobohm – Entrepreneur & Philosopher
How many of your thoughts today helped you get towards your goals in life? And how many of them hindered you? Are you in control of what you think?
As I first learned the answer to these questions, I was shocked. I was staying at the Buddhist monastery Suan Mokkh in the forest of southern Thailand four years ago.
As you can imagine, life at the monastery is quite Spartan. You sleep on a wooden pillow on a straw mat. You wake up at 4:30, meditate for 10 hours every day. Eat nothing but rice and vegetables and shower with a bucket.
One specific morning meditation session, I had a breakthrough moment. It suddenly struck me just how little influence I had over the content of my mind.
I looked back on my life ever since I was a child. And I could clearly see that my mind had always been constantly wandering, distracted, unable to focus.
And the reason why?… Well because I’ve lived the way I have it, like any modern person, over-stimulated. It was my lifestyle that had produced this unsettled mind of mine which had now become nearly impossible to control.
For 20 years, I had been unable to recognize this phenomenon within myself, simply because my mind had never been provided enough space to observe its own functioning.
There is a Swedish ex-monk named Björn Lindeblad who lived as a Buddhist monk for 18 years before returning back home to ordinary life just a few years ago.
Upon his return, a journalist interviewed him and asked, “Björn, from 18 years as a monk with hours of meditation, every single day and no distractions, what’s the one key insight that you took with you home?”
His answer: “I no longer believe in everything I think.”
Sound so mundane and yet it’s not. And this, my friends, is why I’m here today… to introduce the radical concept that you are free to choose your own thoughts and thereby become an architect, free to construct your own life by design.
For some of you this idea might be familiar. It lies at the core of most meditation techniques. Or perhaps it’s a completely new one having yet to enter your mind.
Or maybe… just maybe you are now feeling that this is becoming a bit unscientific and you’re silently wondering how an overdressed hippy got to the TED stage.
Well, regardless of your current standpoint, I humbly ask you to suspend any disbelief or belief, whether you are a corporate CEO or a surfer, I invite you to enter an open state of mind for the next 13 minutes.
Now we find ourselves in a world where for the first time in history, more people die from eating too much than eating too little, more people commit suicide every year than are killed by war, criminals and terrorists combined.
I wish to show you some data on our current health profile as a species.
This graph shows that as for today, 75% of the U.S. population are overweight. For Sweden, that number is almost 60%. This one shows the ten-year increase in amphetamine-based medication being prescribed to children under the age of 17 for being labeled with attention deficit disorders.
And this one shows that as for today, nearly one-tenth of the Swedish population are now being prescribed antidepressants. For U.S., that number is even higher.
Now these are some quite alarming data. However, it could have been my personal data just a few years ago, as I have experienced many of these states myself.
It started 10 years ago now and in a horrific series of events, my mother hastily died in an accident which was unforeseen and left me in chaos. I was 14 at the time.
A few years after that, I had developed addictions. I had become addicted to cannabis, to sugar, to tobacco, to video games. For some years I lived a life where I was constantly distracting myself from the pain of the fact that the woman of my life had left me forever.
In our culture, we are raised from the very beginning of our lives to crave stimulants, and the world we live in is an obvious reflection of this. And I’m not only talking about drugs.
Think of anything we do: watching movies; watching sport events; eating cream cheese; listening to music; watching pornographics; going shopping. The list is endless and all of these are consumer competence. They are produced as a response to human need.
We have lost control of how we use it and have ultimately let them gain control over us on how we think. This was to the highest degree true for me and my past behavior.
And whether you are a tech billionaire, a Buddhist monk, a military officer, or a high school teacher, you are to some degree being unwillingly dictated by your own thoughts but also free to change that.
The American psychologist and philosopher William James said that:
“Thoughts become perception; perception becomes reality. Alter your thoughts, alter your reality.”