Read here the full transcript of mental health professional Steve Hassan’s talk titled “How To Tell If You’re Brainwashed?” at TEDxBoston 2022 conference.
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TRANSCRIPT:
The Dangers of Mind Control and Undue Influence
How could you tell if your mind has been brainwashed, or your mind has been hacked, or you’ve been subjected to mind control, or hypnosis, or undue influence? The people who want to persuade want you to stay ignorant. The authoritarian cults, including Putin, who grew up in the Soviet Union, which was a political cult, and I’m happy to talk about that. The psychology of influence has morphed in decades, and I’m here to share with you.
A Personal Journey into a Cult
It was February 1974. My girlfriend dumped me. I was an upper junior at Queens College, the youngest of three kids of Milton and Estelle Hassan, from Flushing, Queens, New York. Yes, I grew up 1.3 miles from cult 45, DT, and these women approached me in the student union and deceptively recruited me into a front group of what turned out to be a cult.
Within two weeks, I was believing that World War III was about to happen, that Armageddon was coming, that Moon was the greatest man in human history, he was sinless, and for those of you who are too young to know about the Moonies, he’s best known for the mass wedding ceremonies. He did 30,000 couples at one time, total strangers, but who believed in him as the Messiah.
Within two weeks, I left my Judaism and I’m bowing to an altar with Moon’s picture on it, reciting a pledge to fight with my life or kill for Korea. I’m not joking. And I was elevated to leadership very quickly. I guess they saw me as a nice American, tall, whatever. And so I was privy to these secret leadership meetings with Moon about how he talked about democracy being satanic. He talked about taking over America and amending the Constitution and making it a capital offense for people who don’t do what he says regarding the marriages.
The Depths of Indoctrination
And I was a fanatic. My family freaked. My friends freaked. “Steve, it’s a cult. You’re being brainwashed.” I knew I wasn’t brainwashed because I’m smart. I’m educated. I’m from a good family. I didn’t feel brainwashed. I was having a religious experience.
And guess what? When Moon said, “We’re all going to the capital steps to fast for three days for Nixon because God wants him to be president despite Watergate,” I called my father, who had voted for Nixon. I voted for McGovern. I said, “Hey, Dad, I’m fasting for Richard Nixon to be president,” thinking he would love it. He said, “Steve, you are right. He’s a crook.” I said, “Dad, you don’t understand. God is working.” He said, “Steve, now I know you’re brainwashed.”
The Turning Point
My father got his chance. Within two years, I fell asleep at the wheel of a van due to sleep exhaustion. I should say I was sleeping three to four hours a night, seven days a week for no pay. Working for father. And I fell asleep at the wheel of a van, drove into the back of a tractor-trailer truck at 80 miles an hour and nearly died and was trapped for 30 minutes while the rescue workers saved my life.
And there I was in a hospital for two weeks away from the cult. And by the way, this was 1976. So there were no cell phones, right? So I was away from the constant indoctrination. And I called my sister, actually broke a rule. I called my sister Thea and she said, “You have a nephew. I want him to know his Uncle Stevie. You’ve got to visit.” I’m like, “Don’t tell the parents. I think I can arrange it because I’m a leader.” And she did tell my parents. And they arranged the deprogramming.
The Deprogramming Process
It’s a long story. But my father cried and he said, “How would you feel if it was your son who met a controversial group, dropped out of college, quit his job, donated his bank account and disappeared from your life? How would you feel?” And he cried. And it got me right here. And I said, “I’d probably do what you’re doing now.” But I thought he was brainwashed by the communist media. That’s how I was indoctrinated.
So I said, “What do you want me to do?” He said, “Just listen to these ex-members, learn about brainwashing and mind control. If you want to go back at the end of five days, I’ll drive you there myself.” I said, “Done.” Because I was so fanatical, I was so confident that I had the truth.
The Realization
Little did I know on day four, when I learned about Chinese communist brainwashing from former military intelligence people who had studied it in the 50s, it ticked off every box. But wait a minute. We were God and communism was Satan. But it was the same brainwashing techniques. But that still wasn’t enough to get me out.
The following day, the programmers asked me to read one of Moon’s speeches and said, “What do you think, Steve?” And I read it. And for the first time in two and a half years, I had a negative thought. I thought, “What a liar.” Moon was talking to congressmen and senators saying how much he loved America and respected Americans and he was surprised he was being accused of brainwashing Americans. And I had heard him speak in person at least a hundred times how stupid Americans were.
But once I had that thought, “He’s a liar,” that means he’s not trustworthy. That means he can’t be of God. And it was like a house of cards going plop, plop, plop, plop, plop in my mind. And I cried for three hours.
The Mission to Educate
And here I am, 45 years later, trying to share my experience with the planet because everyone needs to understand this is not a mystical thing.