Helen Riess: The Power of Empathy at TEDxMiddlebury (Full Transcript)

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Dr. Helen Riess – Chief Scientist and Chairman of Empathetics

Even before I became a psychiatrist, I have always been fascinated by human connection: What makes us connect with others and what makes us disconnect? All of us at some point have been on a plane when we have just settled into our novel, we’re listening to music or getting our work done when suddenly the air is pierced by the sound of a shrieking baby. Now I have watched all kinds of reactions to this from the very sympathetic look toward the parents to people who looked mildly annoyed or even frustrated to others literally racing each other to the one empty seat at the front of the plane to get away from this noise.

But on a recent trip to the West Coast, I saw the most amazing reaction of all: a little three-year-old boy wiggled out of his seat, toddled over to that screaming baby and offered him his own pacifier. Wow! I thought — now that little boy really heard and felt that baby’s distress. And isn’t that what all of us want to be seen and heard and to have our needs responded to? That’s the essence of empathy.

So about 10 years ago, a student of mine called me up with a fascinating idea. He wanted to find out whether when there was empathy between people, whether their heart rates and other physiological tracers actually matched up in concordance. And he wanted to recruit many doctor-patient pairs who were willing to have their sessions videotaped and to be hooked up to monitoring during those sessions.

It took a bit of arm twisting for me to agree to do this but it turned out to be a career-defining decision. One of my patients who agreed to participate was a young college woman who had come for help with weight loss. She made progress in many areas but not this one.

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So we were hooked up to this skin conductance monitoring which it turns out actually can show whether two people are in sync as you see on this slide where the physiology actually mirrors one another between the doctor and the patient, or if they’re out of sync or if there’s discordance.

So later that afternoon, my student called up and he said, ‘You’ve got to come over and see this’.

So I went down, I looked at our tracings and I was blown away. This calm, very self-confident appearing woman, very articulate turned out to have massive anxiety. So our tracings were actually quite in sync, except that hers was going like this while mine was going like this. And I had not realized what was going on inside of her. When I showed the tracing to her, she said, ‘I’m not surprised by this at all. I live with this every day but no one has ever seen my pain’. Not only as her doctor but as a fellow human being, this moved me to the core.

So I went back, watched that video, this time as an emotion detective and tried to see what was happening, because clearly I had missed something. I noticed that the highest peaks of her tracings coincided with the subtle motor movements, such as just flicking her hair or looking down in a way or subtle changes in her tone of voice. Our work continued and as I paid attention to these signs and responded to them, our work went to a much deeper level. She unburdened herself emotionally and started to exercise for the first time in her life. And this woman who had only gained weight and never lost weight before, went on to lose almost 50 pounds in the next year.

This was groundbreaking for her. It was also groundbreaking for me, because I realized that with this careful attention, I had learned to be more empathic. Now back then everyone thought that empathy was something that we were born with or without, and that we were kind of stuck with whether we were or we weren’t.

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Imagine what implications there were if doctors, nurses, teachers, employers, parents, boyfriends and girlfriends could learn to be more empathic with each other. So I learned everything I could about the neuroscience of empathy and this was a very growing field at the time. And through what I learned, I developed empathy training and this training was grounded in the neurobiology of emotions and empathy. And the training went on to be tested in a randomized control trial at Massachusetts General Hospital where doctors that were rated by their patients were rated much more higher if they were trained on: My doctor really listened to me, really showed care and compassion, treated me like a whole person and understood my concerns some of the components of the empathy skills than the untrained doctors.

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