Lady Gaga gave this emotional and empowering speech on mental health at ELLE’s 25th Annual Women in Hollywood. This event occurred on October 15, 2018.
Stefani Joanne Angelina Germanotta (born March 28, 1986), known professionally as Lady Gaga, is an American singer, songwriter and actress.
Below is the full text [verbatim] of her speech.
Lady Gaga – Speech TRANSCRIPT
It’s hard to know what to say. I wrote this speech and there’s teleprompters and I got papers.
I don’t know what to – use.
And in truth, I was just trying to memorize Anita’s speech because it was so beautiful, but…
You give me hope!
Thank you, Jennifer, for that beautiful introduction. You’re an inspiration to so many. Thank you not only for everything you continually do for women, but for the force of nature you’ve been
for so many all over the world.
I think about me and my best friend who’s here tonight, right there. I’ve known her since I was four years old. Beautiful adopted woman from Korea. And how throughout high school, we danced and we sang, imitating Jennifer. Imitating you while we strengthened our bond.
Her name is Bo. And wearing white bandanas and hoop earrings draped over caramel colored hair.
You brought us so much joy. Where are you? You brought us so much joy.
On the train, I thought about you. And how the fuck I was going to get off that train. She loved you so much. We even gave her the nickname, J-Bo. No for real. Like, we called her that all the time.
There is not a doubt in my mind that you will be loved forever as the powerhouse of a performer and woman that you are. Thank you for making so many memories for me and my friends
that I will cherish forever in my heart. Thank you so much.
I never in my wildest dreams thought that my life would become what it has. But more so, to be honored this evening purely for being a woman. It’s beyond what I could have imagined. I guess I didn’t see it happening in my lifetime.
I am immensely privileged to be in the company of so many powerful women who have changed so many people’s lives. I am so humbled to be standing hand-in-hand with every one of you today.
I spent a lot of time thinking about what I wanted to say tonight because of all of you, because you inspire me.
How does one rise to such an occasion, when maybe you don’t feel that inside? How does one accept where life has brought them, and what it all means?
As I tried on dress after dress today, getting ready for this event, one tight corset after another,
one heel after another, a diamond, a feather, thousands of beaded fabrics, and the most beautiful silks in the world, to be honest, I felt sick to my stomach.
And I asked myself: what does it really mean to be a woman in Hollywood? We are not just objects to entertain the world. We are not simply images to bring smiles or grimaces to people’s faces. We are not members of a giant beauty pageant meant to be pit against one another for the pleasures of the public.
We women in Hollywood, we are voices. We have deep thoughts and ideas and beliefs and values about the world and we have the power to speak and be heard and fight back when we are silenced.
So, after trying on 10 or so dresses, with a sad feeling in my heart that all that would matter
was what I wore to this red carpet, I saw an oversized Marc Jacobs suit buried quietly in the corner.
I put it on to a resounding view of eyes glaring at me in confusion.
“But the Rodarte was so beautiful,” one said. “But the Raf Simons for Calvin Klein was so stunning on you,” said another. “But what about the Brandon Maxwell?” “What about the Dior?” Lots of questions.
They were all dresses. This was an oversized men’s suit made for a woman. Not a gown.
And then I began to cry. In this suit, I felt like me today. In this suit, I felt the truth of who I am well up in my gut. And then wondering what I wanted to say tonight became very clear to me.
As a sexual assault survivor by someone in the entertainment industry, as a woman who is still not brave enough to say his name, as a woman who lives with chronic pain, as a woman who was conditioned at a very young age to listen to what men told me to do, I decided today, I wanted to take the power back.
Today, I wear the pants. Today, I wear the suit.
In an age when I can barely watch the news, I gasped at the unjust men and some women, quite frankly, that I see running this country. I had a revelation that I had to be empowered to be myself today more than ever, to resist the standards of Hollywood, whatever that means, to resist the standards of dressing to impress, but to use what really matters: my voice.
After I was assaulted when I was 19, I changed forever. Part of me shut down for many years.
I didn’t tell anyone. I avoided it myself. And felt shame even still today.
Standing in front of you, I feel shame for what happened to me. I still have days where I feel like it was my fault.