Here is the full transcript of Psychology professor Saba Safdar’s TEDx Talk: Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Culture at TEDxGuelphU conference.
Saba Safdar – Professor of Psychology
A colleague of mine wants to start his talk by saying if I were American, I would start by telling a joke. If I were Japanese I would just start by apologizing. Given that I am English I would start by apologizing for not having a joke.
In my case, I am Iranian Canadian, so I thought to represent my Iranian side. I start with widely exaggerated claim as you see on the title.
And then I apologize for it to represent my Canadian-ness. Clearly you are not going to learn everything there is to know about culture in the next 15-20 minutes that I have.
But I’m going to talk about two aspects of how culture demonstrate itself, manifest itself in our everyday life, through communication and through a specific one, communication in terms of insult and humor.
So what is culture? It’s a fuzzy concept. It’s like water to fish. We have difficulty defining it, especially defining our own culture because it’s all we know.
There are dozens of definition that has been offered by social scientists in defining culture and this definition that I usually use it is given by one of the pioneers in the area of cross-cultural psychology Harry Triandis. He talks about it in terms of human made part of the environment. It is the tangible aspect of our environment is what we can see, the classroom we have built, the parks we have, the highways. That’s the material aspect of our culture but it’s also the subjective aspect of our culture.
It is how we perceive our social environment, how we function in our families, how we perceive our notion of self, the social norms, the marital laws, the educational framework, the legal system. We learn our culture through socialization of course. You are not born with a particular culture.
There are multiple ways of looking at examining culture and one of the best ways is, or one of the ways that have been studied quite extensively is through looking at cultural values. Values are preferences and the tendencies we have in our life and again it is instilled in us at early stages of our life.
It tells us what is important, what is valuable in a culture. There is a very significant value dimension that has been studied and is quite powerful in terms of examining cultural issues, and that’s the notion of individualism collectivism suggested by Geert Hofstede, a Dutch cross-cultural psychologist.
On one hand, we have individualistic societies, Canada is being one of the top five individualistic country we know of in the globe. And between these societies we find that the notion of ‘I’ is highly emphasized. The way we talk about — the way individualism is understood is that — very loose social framework where the person the individual is considered to be very important. We look after ourselves and our immediate family. The ‘I’ is highlighted, the connection that we celebrate or the notion that we celebrate is the notion of the individuality. The uniqueness is valued and autonomous is valued and preferred.
On the other hand of this spectrum, we have the notion of collectivism where it is a very tight social framework. The ‘we’ is highlighted. The preference is for the individual to contribute to the notion of family obligation, and family connection is highly preferred and expected.
I thought in order to illustrate this notion of individualism collectivism, I would talk about two aspects of communication where we see how culture plays a role in terms of social interaction we have, everyday social interaction. Two of those types are an insult and humor.
So in terms of insult, examining verbal abuse is quite revealing in terms of, it tells us a lot about the culture. Because when you look at verbal abuse we know what aspect of a person is highly emphasized in that culture, that by denying it we are stripping the person from those characteristics.
So in an individualistic society where a person is highly valued and emphasized and unique — we would expect a different individualistic abuse or insult, verbal abuse than in collectivistic society.
I have a study to illustrate that, but before I talk about that classical study, I would like the audience to just shout out some insult that they have heard of or they use or they are aware of as a Canadian. Could I hear a few insults please?
What is it? Slacker. Thank you. And anything else? Moron. Fantastic. So we have slacker… these are… things like that, so look at some of these individualistic insults we are aware of and to a large extent, it is used in our culture, Canadian culture – idiot, cruel; what we are saying here we are stripping the person from psychological characteristic that we consider to be important.
We have – we are denying a person physical characteristic: ugly, fat, that again we celebrate in our culture. We are denying a person a notion of civility, lack of manner by saying person is rude. We are talking about the blurring the difference between human and animal like a pig, dirty, and of course we have sexual insults as well. And then these are some of those activities that our culture looks down on or we consider it not appropriate.