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Simon Sinek Best Ever Motivational Speech (Transcript)

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The Essence of Great Leadership

You want to be a great leader? Start with empathy. You want to be a great leader? Change your perspective and play the game you’re actually playing.

You don’t have to be happy every day, but you can be fulfilled every day. What vulnerability means is you create an environment in which someone feels safe enough to raise their hand and say, “I don’t know what I’m doing.” So I think that the whole concept of searching for happiness or searching for the job that you love or searching for love is completely misguided. It’s finding an area where you could work hard at it, and then you have to work hard to keep it.

These are no longer peaceful times and those models cannot work today. It’s not about being in charge. It’s about taking care of those in your charge. We don’t always have to be right. We don’t always have to be in charge. We don’t have to be the one who succeeds. We keep saying to them, “You’re the future leader.” We’re the leaders now. We’re in control. What are we doing?

You’ll be told your whole life that you need to learn to listen. I would say that you need to learn to be the last to speak.

How do I help my people be at their natural best? You must understand from where they are speaking, why they have the opinion they have, not just what they are saying. Now, who are you going to ask for help and when are you going to accept help when it’s offered? And so we’ve literally created cultures in which every single day, everybody comes to work and lies, hides, and fakes.

The Infinite Game of Business

There’s no winning the game of business. The infinite player isn’t playing to be number one every day with every product. They’re playing to outlast the competition. How do we advance our cause more efficiently, more productively than we did yesterday?

The world is too dangerous and the world is too difficult for you to think that you can do these things alone. Empathy is being concerned about the human being, not just their output. You want to be an elite warrior? It’s not about how tough you are. It’s not about how smart you are. It’s not about how fast you are. If you want to be an elite warrior, you better get really, really good at helping the person to the left of you and helping the person to the right of you.

The Addicted Generation

You’re dealing with an addicted generation. This is a big time bomb ticking. These kids who commit suicide, you go look at their Instagrams, you would have no clue that they were depressed. If you wake up and you check your phone before you say good morning to your girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse, you have a problem. If you say good morning to your girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse, you have an addiction.

And like all addiction, in time it’ll destroy relationships, it’ll cost time and it’ll cost money and it’ll make your life worse. You’re dealing with an addicted generation. This is a big time bomb ticking. It will get really worse.

So combine that with the fact that you have an addicted generation that doesn’t have the skill set to ask for help. Combine it with the fact that they’re so good at Facebook and Instagram, they’re good at putting filters on everything. They’re good at showing you how smart and strong they are. These kids who commit suicide, you go look at their Instagrams, you would have no clue that they were depressed. They’re happy and they’re star athletes. You’d have no clue because they’re really good.

The Failed Parenting Strategy

So when we say silly things like, “My door is always open,” you’re assuming they have the courage to come in. Combine with the fact that they’re subject largely, not all, but too many, to a failed parenting strategy. Because their parents told them they were special, they could have anything they wanted, they could be anything they want. They got medals for coming in last. The kids got into honors classes, not because they deserved it, but because the parents complained. And some of them got good grades, not because they earned them, but because the teachers didn’t want to deal with the parents.

And then the kids graduate college and they get a job. And in an instant, they find out they’re not special. They don’t get anything for coming in last. Their parents can’t get them a promotion. And you can’t have whatever you want just because you want it. And in an instant, their entire self-image is shattered.

And so you have an entire generation growing up with lower self-confidence than previous generations.

The Impact of Social Media and Technology

So you have lower self-confidence than previous generations, combined with an inability to ask for help with things that you’re struggling with. And you turn to social media, your device, you keep checking, you keep checking, you count your likes, you count your likes, you count your followers, you count your followers. And if somebody unfriends you, oh my God, it’s trauma.

We’re growing up in a Facebook, Instagram world. In other words, we’re good at putting filters on things. We’re good at showing people that life is amazing, even though I’m depressed. And so everybody sounds tough. And everybody sounds like they got it all figured out. And the reality is there’s very little toughness and most people don’t have it figured out.

Now let’s add in technology. We know that engagement with social media and our cell phones releases a chemical called dopamine. That’s why when you get a text, it feels good. Dopamine is the exact same chemical that makes us feel good when we smoke, when we drink, and when we gamble.