Full Transcript: What Kids Wish Their Teachers Knew by Kyle Schwartz

Kyle Schwartz is a third grade teacher at Doull Elementary in Denver, Colorado. Doull Elementary has a strong community and the school faces challenges. At Doull, about 90% of students live below or very near to the poverty line and about half are learning English at school. As a young adult, she worked at the education nonprofit City Year in Washington D.C., where she painted murals, scrubbed off graffiti, and served food to the homeless.

She is the author of the book: I Wish My Teacher Knew.

Below is the full text of her TEDx Talk titled “What kids wish their teachers knew” at TEDxKyoto conference.

 

 

TRANSCRIPT: 

One evening, after a long day of teaching eight-year-olds at my Denver elementary school, I found a crumpled orange piece of paper in my kitchen.

And as I unfolded it, I noticed that it was a note that a student had written to me.

And as I read the shaky handwriting, I felt the same twinge of pain as the first time I had read those words.

The note said, “I wish my teacher knew I don’t have pencils at home to do my homework.”

Now that student, she’d written those words to me in response to a lesson I’d been doing in my classroom where I asked students a question and I invited them to respond.

But I’ve been doing this for years in my classroom and never told anyone. But this time, when I saw those words, I saw something worth sharing.

And I took a picture of the note, and I put it on my new Twitter account, and I hoped that other educators would ask their students the same beautifully simple question: “What do you wish your teacher knew?”

Now, right away, teachers saw the note, and they asked their students, and then more teachers saw it, and more people asked their students, and as it went viral, it transformed. It became much bigger than just sharing a simple lesson in my classroom.

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My students’ voices were amplified, and they became powerful advocates for their community. And in this way, we swapped our traditional roles, and my students became the ones with something to teach – that is, if we are willing to listen.

You see, in the five years that I’ve done this lesson with students, the students in my classroom have come and gone, but I’ve noticed three distinct lessons that they’ve taught me.

And as we look at notes from my students and other students, I hope you learn those same three lessons. The lesson of connection, the lesson of complexity, and the lesson of reflection.

CONNECTION

Now, first of all, students really wish we knew just how deeply they crave connection. Like this note that says, “I wish my teacher knew I love my family.”

You see, no matter where you are in the world, your family is always your first and your most important teacher. And our schools can harness the power of this by creating strong partnerships between our families and our schools.

And then there’s this note that says, “I wish my teacher knew I want to learn more about history.” You see, we all have curiosities. Isn’t that why you are here today? We are more productive and fulfilled when we follow them.

That’s why I view it as my role as a teacher to recognize and cultivate my students’ passions, and connect what we’re doing in school to what they actually care about.

Well, this next note, we can all too easily relate to. It says, “I wish my teacher knew I don’t have a friend to play with me.”

You see, those words, they touch a special place in our hearts because we all know what loneliness feels like. And the truth is, what we value most – more than wealth, more than success – is connection.

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And if we agree on that, then shouldn’t the priorities of school include helping students build and maintain relationships? Because a student that’s connected is a student that can learn.

Well, those notes, they share with us the universal joys and growing pains of childhood, but there’s another lesson.

COMPLEXITY

You see, our students really wish you knew just how complex their lives are. You see, there are students who are struggling with things just as real and complicated as we adults are.

This note says, “I wish my teacher knew that my dad died this year, and I feel more alone and disconnected from my peers than ever before.”

There’s this note that says, “I wish my teacher knew, my mom might get diagnosed with cancer this week, and I’ve been without a home three times this year alone.”

Imagine. These kids sitting in our classroom, their heads are full with ideas much more complicated than solving a math problem. And maybe, maybe you’ve been that kid before.

Maybe there’s been a moment in your life where your world overshadowed the day’s lesson. Yes, we all have difficult times, but when children do, it affects their learning and their development.

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