Full transcript of former Navy SEAL and inventor of Sleep Remedy, Kirk Parsley’s TEDx Talk: America’s Biggest Problem at TEDxReno Conference.
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I’d like to talk to you all about an enormous problem that we all share, and most of us aren’t aware of it. And this problem, it’s wrecking our health, our finances, our happiness, and even our relationships.
But don’t worry too much; we share this problem with over 100 million other Americans. So at least we’re all in the same boat, right?
Now, as the saying goes, I have some good news, and I have some bad news. The good news is, there’s a natural solution to this problem. It’s 100 percent effective, it’s easy to use, and it’s free. Even better, this solution feels good. In fact, it can feel wonderful. And it improves our brains, and our bodies, and here’s the best part, it even improves our sex lives. Sound pretty good?
So what’s the bad news? Well, the bad news is that we actually have two problems. And our second problem is that we don’t believe we have the first. How do I know that? Because I didn’t believe it. And nor do the vast majority of my patients, initially.
So I’d like to ask you all a favor. I would like to ask that everybody put aside anything you may have heard about this problem just for the next 10 minutes, OK? And let’s look at this with new eyes. Do we have a deal?
Okay. So what are these mysterious problems? Well, our first problem is that we, as a nation, are chronically sleep deprived. And our second problem is that we, as individuals, don’t believe it’s affecting us. And when I say “we,” I’m including myself because I’ve chosen two professions that have taught me to push through sleep deprivation. First as a Navy SEAL, and now, as a physician. But we’ve all been taught this to various degrees.
We’ve all been taught to admire the hard charging, uber successful, super high-achieving executives who claim to sleep only four to five hours per night. And we’re pretty sure they’re telling the truth because they always seem to e-mail us at 3 a.m., right? You know the guy, OK. You have the same friend as me.
We live in a culture that makes sleeping less seem heroic. But it’s that very belief that prevents us from analyzing the data. It prevents us from seeing the price we are paying, and worse yet, it prevents us from even wanting to solve that first problem. And it’s not just SEALs; it’s not just doctors; it’s everybody. It’s school teachers, business people, cops, firefighters, moms, dads, and sadly, even our children. Again, we’re all in the same boat.
America is sleep deprived, and most of us don’t realize it. Today, the average American sleeps six-and-a-half hours per night. That is 20% less than we slept just 30 years ago. And we think we’re fine. We think we’re getting away with it. But we’re not.
And we think we take care of ourselves, in general, right? But for some reason, sleep seems to be the exception to this rule. And you can hear this conflict in our daily language. We say things like, “Listen to your body” but “Sleep is for the weak.” We say, “Health is everything,” but “I’ll sleep when I’m dead.” In other words we say, “Be really healthy!” And “Go kill yourself!” Right?
Remember, we’ve agreed to put that orthodoxy on hold, keep our minds open, and question the conventional wisdom. And let me give you an interesting way to do that.
I would like you all to imagine that you’re in the hospital. You are moments away from urgent, life-saving surgery. Justifiably, you are terrified. Now your surgeon is reputed to be one of the best in the world. And he comes over to your bed to answer any last questions, and have you sign consent forms.
Now while you’re looking over the consent forms, he reaches into his white coat and he pulls out a shot glass and a bottle of whiskey. And then he pours a shot; tosses it back.
Now, seeing this shocked look on your face that you all have, he immediately explains, “Don’t worry; I only have one shot every two hours. And for a man my size, that will never result in a blood alcohol level above 0.05 which is well below the legal limit for intoxication.”
So what do you say? “Okay, you’re the doc; let’s get this show on the road.” Right? Of course not. We would never accept that rationale. Nor would we accept it from a pilot, or a policeman, or any other professional. Yet, as a society, we seem perfectly willing to accept sleep deprivation even though research has repeatedly shown that being awake for 18 hours results in a performance on par with a blood alcohol level of 0.05, the same as our hypothetical surgeon.
Worse yet, pulling an all-nighter results in a performance on par with a 0.08 to 0.1. But it’s not just the heroic all-nighters, right? It’s the insidious, night after night of losing one hour here, two hours there, that’s destroying our health.
And let me tell you a story about a guy who learned this the hard way. When I met him, he was in college full-time. He was working. He was married. He had kids. And he was trying to get into graduate school. And he tried to make all this work by skimping on sleep. And he continued that way throughout graduate school.