I have gained more confident the more “NO”s I am receiving from others. Every single “NO” makes me refine and rebuild my caliber. There was indeed unfamiliar chemicals inside my body and mind, during those initial phases of getting familiar with the rejections.
In the process of figuring it out the best version of myself, I was able to break through this epic definition.
“The maximum numbers of NOs + More numbers of new Mistakes = Unstoppable”.
I was literally broke with zero sources of income after I left the beautiful journey of few jobs (2005 – the beginning of 2019). I am being convinced by the Universe based on the below bold points:
- How about I learn and teach myself to lead my own life depending totally on my decision(s).
- How about I create my own beliefs and principles that are uneasy and meaningful to follow them.
- How about I depend on my limited skills and earn my living.
- How about I build more meaningful connections.
- How about I unlearn the previous less meaningful old beliefs & lessons.
The journey had begun with lots of BIG FAT NOs from the existing connections, and few of my damn dear friends told me that “Why did you quit that job from that awesome company?”, “I used to be super selfish thinking only about my job and salary. I need to use my energy and time to create jobs and opportunities for others.”
I have answered them, I can feel and see their thought processes inside their head after they heard my answer.
I had a BIG FAT SMILE within me and headed to a nearby public library. I gained a few invaluable insights from some senior citizens (Ex Indian Armies). We have also exchanged our contact numbers. I boarded a metro train and headed to my room and re-valuing the amazing new connections I made today.