Full text of educator Nora Flanagan’s talk: “What We Learn When School Can’t Stop” at TEDxWrigleyville conference. In this talk, she shares ideas and solutions to bridge the gaps between teachers, parents, schools and communities.
Nora Flanagan – Educator
The last day of school was barely school. I fielded complicated questions from students who braved public transit to attend. I wiped down every desk between classes and reminded myself to breathe. I held it together so hard when students said goodbye with a strange, scared weight on that word.
Colleagues and I exchanged glances in the hallway at once tensed and comforting. We were in this together even if we were about to part ways for several months.
And when school as we know it stopped, we all took a long minute just to process that, it seemed impossible 400,000 students in Chicago now needed to learn from home and we would need to make that happen both as the third largest school district in the country and as the human beings who constitute it.
But the seemingly impossible keeps becoming reality really fast lately. So teachers jumped and adapted. We learned to host online meetings. We hung white boards on our living room walls. Many teachers struggled just reaching out to see if their students were all right.
And in addition to making remote learning plausible, teachers have also been organizing food drives and housing resources. They have made and donated masks by the thousands, and they’ve never stopped reaching out.
But this isn’t new. This isn’t dramatic heroism in the face of a pandemic. This is teaching; this is being invested in our communities.
As parents, we’ve had to adapt too, because our working lives and our family lives and our mental health have all collided and coagulated. Well-intentioned color-coded schedules speckled the internet.
Everyone has cried at the kitchen table at least once. Some of us several times.
And then there are other students… I’ve seen students participate in class from the break room at work where they are front line for minimum wage to help their families. They’ve attended a makeshift funeral in the morning and a Google Meet in the afternoon. They are child care providers. They are experiencing housing insecurity. They are scared; they are stressed; and they are children.
When my son’s teacher asked a screen full of nine-year-olds, if everybody was okay, it almost broke me. How are you? What do you need? Is your family safe?
School without school has been traumatic. It’s been makeshift; it’s been messy. Parents, teachers, and students have fumbled with tech, fumbled even more with expectations. We’ve lost so much.
Maybe… just maybe stripped bare like it’s been, we can see more. When words like rigor, grit and a half dozen other educational hashtags don’t seem to matter, we can see what’s in front of us with new clarity. And that includes the gaps: the inequities; the failures… they’re all heightened, but so are the successes.
So what’s working? What do kids need from their schools? And what do we really mean when we discuss FRAME and fund education?
Well as both a parent and a teacher, I keep coming back to four big ideas. None of them are new; all of them are necessary. And in them, I’m hoping other parents, other teachers, and students will hear echoes of their experiences and outlines of what’s possible.
We can, and we must engage parents, demand equity, support the whole students and rethink assessment.
First and foremost, engaging the parents. Historically we’ve isolated parents and teachers, schools and neighborhoods. We say otherwise, but the influential forces in a kid’s life rarely intersect with any depth. We have parent-teacher conferences, a STEM night, a bake sale we all immediately regret agreeing to do.
But the parents are here now, every day inadvertently eavesdropping on class because we’re also making lunch or sharing a workspace, we are tutors, we are co-teachers. We are all relearning algebra, and it’s awkward. But maybe it’s exactly what we needed because parents are seeing how school happens or doesn’t, what excites their kids and what shuts them down, whether there’s a rubric for it or not.
And we’re watching our kids learn empathy and balance and time management and tree climbing and introspection and the value of a little bit of boredom. We might not want this to last but we can learn from it. We can keep parents engaged beyond bake sales. We can take this time and ask parents what they and their kids need.
Ask again, ask in every language. Ask the parents who haven’t been able to engage with their children’s remote learning. Meet parents where they are and many will tell you they need us to prioritize their children’s wellness, support diverse learners, protect neighborhoods from housing instability and attacks on immigrant communities.
So many parents will tell us right now that they can’t support their children’s learning if they can’t support their families.
So next, we demand equity. Our school system currently serves a student population that includes 75% low-income households and 90% students of color. The fight for equity in Chicago is as old as Chicago.