Here is the full transcript of Alison Sommer’s TEDx Talk on Anxiety Disorders and Panic Attacks at TEDxCarletonCollege conference.
Alison Sommer: My first goal here today is not to have a panic attack right on stage. I have an anxiety disorder called Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, or OCD.
I have a form of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder that causes me to become anxious or frightened when something wrong or unexpected happens. Like, if somebody sits at my seat at the table. It also causes intrusive thoughts. These are thoughts that come unbidden to my head about things that I’ve done in the past or things that I might do. Things that could happen by chance or because everybody secretly hates me.
As you might imagine, these intrusive thoughts are really quite anxiety producing. And this anxiety can manifest in different physical and emotional responses, one of which is the panic attack which I’ll be talking about more in depth later.
But, the thing that made me really hyperaware of the effects of my OCD and made me determined to spread awareness about anxiety disorders in general, is that my own symptoms were not always this severe. So, I want to start at the beginning.
As long as I can remember, I’ve always been an obsessive-minded child. I would take a thing, good or bad, and roll it over in my head, over and over. I was also really shy and awkward and I know, especially at Carleton, a lot of you are thinking, “Yeah, me too”.
Because, you know, there are a lot of shy, awkward people and all of us have our little obsessions. I don’t know if there is a scale for being shy, awkward and obsessive, but I always felt like I was toward the high end of the range. “Weirdo” and “freak” were terms I readily accepted as a teenager.
And when all the other girls my age were really into the Backstreet Boys, I’m dating myself, I was obsessed with Star Wars. I sort of still am. Like, I got in trouble for coming home late for curfew once as a teenager and as punishment my parents took away my Star Wars stuff. And I thought that the world had collapsed. I also had on-again, off-again issues with anxiety and depression.
And anxiety and depression really go hand in hand, like two best friends who like to corner a third person and make them feel like shit. So, there I was, this anxious, awkward obsessive and sometimes depressed girl. And that was life, that was my normal.
When I got a little older and started coming out of my shell and meeting people with similar interests to me, like the folks here at the Sci-Fi House at Carleton Benton House, anyone? Woo! I started actually opening up and talking to people about my feelings, and I started to realize that there were other people like me that suffered from anxiety and depression.
And suddenly, instead of feeling like a freak, I felt like just kind of a normal, anxiety/depression story with a little obsessive behavior thrown in for good measure. And that actually felt pretty cool. So, that was my life. I also started to get a little help then, I saw my first psychiatrist, got my first meds. And, you know, things were going pretty good.
And then I got a really bad concussion while I was playing hockey. Love the sport, still play it, but it was bad. That’s when things took a nosedive from me feeling like normal, it-runs-in-the-family crazy to like scary crazy. That’s when the intrusive thoughts started getting louder and louder. This clicker sucks.
And it was bad. It was really, really bad. I was angry all the time. It mostly came out at my husband, but my road rage was also pretty epic. While I was being an ass to other people, I was also being an ass to myself.
I was not eating. I was down to a size zero and that monkey was saying, “You can get skinnier.” And I didn’t want to accept that I had a problem. I wanted to feel like I was kicking ass. But, I knew deep down that there was something wrong, because I wasn’t sleeping and my marriage was going through the shitter.
But, trying to even think about changing my habits, really thinking about changing any of my habits would give me massive anxiety. And this anxiety was leading to panic attacks.
Panic attacks are one of the most frightening manifestations of anxiety. I know if you’ve never had a panic attack, the name sounds kind of lame.
We all have those moments of panic like, “Oh, did I leave the oven running?” or “My kid just bolted out into the middle of the street” Or maybe more for you: “I forgot to study for that test.” But none of these are panic attacks. The Mayo Clinic’s website says, “A panic attack is a sudden episode of intense fear that triggers severe physical reactions when there is no real danger or apparent cause. Panic attacks can be very frightening. When a panic attacks occurs you might think you’re losing control, having a heart attack, or even dying.” That’s a pretty good definition, but what does it really feel like? That’s what I’m going to try to show you.
So, it’s a pretty normal day, but maybe a little bit stressful, like at a performance evaluation at work or packing for vacation. I’m doing something pretty normal and I start to feel “off.” I know something’s not quite right. I’m getting tingly. A tingling numbness creeps up my neck and all over my face, and seeps into my head. I feel dizzy. So, I sit down.