5 Limiting Beliefs That Hold You Back by TD Jakes (Transcript)

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TD Jakes – Pastor, author and filmmaker

I’m going to pull out irrational belief patterns that may be hindering you from going to the next level. One of them is undeserving. I do not deserve the good measure that flows – I just don’t deserve it. I just can’t see myself as being in this position, I don’t deserve it.

Undeserving

This often comes from things that people said to you or about you and they had convention, they programmed you to see yourself in a limited parameter. And so when you see opportunities beyond how you’ve been programmed, you reject it because you don’t feel like you’re deserving of it.

Ordinary

The other one is — beyond undeserving is ordinary. I do not want to stand apart or be different. I want to fit in. You’d be surprised at the people because they have a belief system that holds on to being ordinary, they will not take the lead. I am afraid that I will become a target and you will.

I want to — let me say that to you too in the name of honesty. If you take the lead you will become a target. But just because they’re shooting at you doesn’t mean they shot you. In fact, some of you should rejoice in the fact that event, that somebody had emptied out their quiver of arrows shooting at you and you are still here, and that person that wouldn’t go out and do what you did for fear of being shot at didn’t recognize that because of your faith and your convictions you have been able to pass through the arrows that have been shot at you and survived. But you have to have courage to do that and you have to get rid of your fear to do that. And you have to be able to see arrows singing by you, people hating on you, the controversy rising all around you and you have to say like Job, “Though he slay me, yet shall I trust you.”

Social Change

The third belief system that may be hindering you is social change. I fear rejection, loneliness, or claims that I had changed or sold out. I don’t – I don’t want to be rejected by my sociological environment. And this is very very important to minorities, because when you are a minority there is a clammy survival mechanism that fits in, no matter what kind of minority you are in any situation.

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I was in Mexico a while ago and a gentleman came up and said to me, if you’re going to rent a boat because I like to rent boats and go fishing — he says — you’re going to rent a boat, rent a boat for me because I’m an American. Because in that setting, he was a minority. And the idea is we have to stick together. Watch out for we’s, because people will control you with the we and you will miss your opportunity at what may be the best deal for you. Trying to be loyal to the we is what we teach our children, about peer pressure and all of a sudden in order to fit in in your sociological environment, you passed up the promotion, you wouldn’t buy the house that was the best deal for you because it moved you out of the neighborhood that you were defined by, you passed up the position that you wanted to take, because now your girlfriends won’t like you, because you’re now managing the girls who used to run with and so in order to fit in you’re going to stay in the seat that I started this sermon from rather than to take your rightful place behind this rostrum because you want the people you’re sitting beside to like you and accept you — and you don’t want to be a sellout. Oh my —

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