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goop Podcast: The State of Silicon Valley w/ Kara Swisher (Transcript)

Read the full transcript of journalist Kara Swisher’s interview on The goop Podcast with host Gwyneth Paltrow, May 5, 2026.

The Art of Being Direct

GWYNETH PALTROW: Can I ask you something that I personally want to know for my own career development? How are you able to be so direct/confrontational? Is that fair with people? You’re not confrontational.

KARA SWISHER: Yeah, you can use that word.

GWYNETH PALTROW: Well, I don’t mean it in like— I don’t care. Yeah, I mean it in— Yeah, like I’m— I sort of like sometimes I want to ask somebody a question and then I go to like, this is going to be painful for them or uncomfortable. And so I don’t like— how do you do that?

KARA SWISHER: Because I don’t think it’s— I don’t think it’s rude to be clear with someone.

GWYNETH PALTROW: Right.

KARA SWISHER: And I sometimes— I don’t like the people that say, “I don’t mean to be a bitch, but—” because that’s always the rude question. Right. But I think when you ask someone something directly, really smart people appreciate it.

GWYNETH PALTROW: Yeah.

KARA SWISHER: Right. And I do think women do have an issue with being a good girl. Right.

GWYNETH PALTROW: Don’t fully be a good girl.

KARA SWISHER: Like, be polite.

GWYNETH PALTROW: Yeah.

KARA SWISHER: But they confuse it with saying what they want. Like, same thing with money with women. Like, when I used to manage people, all the men overestimated. Like, and I hate to be tropey, but it’s true. Like, this one guy’s like, “You know, I really think I need a raise.” I said, “I’m actually thinking of firing you. Interesting that we have such different viewpoints about your career.” And he’s like, “Excuse me?” I’m like, “I’ve given you evaluation after evaluation that I’m thinking of firing you, and if you don’t understand what I’m saying, it’s really hard.”

And then the woman was doing really well and just, I offered a raise and she was like, “Oh great.” And I’m like, “No, no, you need to ask for more because you deserve it and you should know.” And it was really interesting, but I just find it, it never hurts me to do that. And you should do that more. And they won’t expect it from some people. Right. But it’s not rude to ask a direct question.

GWYNETH PALTROW: Yeah. No, I think it’s more just like handling my discomfort or the perceived, right.

KARA SWISHER: So that’s my problem. Right. So you don’t want to make, but why are you, what are you making them discomforted about when you ask a direct question?

GWYNETH PALTROW: I think to your point around having been socialized to be a good girl, right? The idea that I could ask a question that would make somebody feel like they have to defend themselves in some way.

KARA SWISHER: Right.

GWYNETH PALTROW: And I guess because I also have been the brunt of that for so long.

KARA SWISHER: Sure. We talked about that when you came to Code, right?

GWYNETH PALTROW: And I think people do it to me for like clickbait. Like if they’re not really trying to get to an answer that they think they’re going to learn something from or is going to enlighten them, they’re thinking about the clicks. So I think that’s why as well.

On Reese Witherspoon, AI, and Women Being Dragged Online

KARA SWISHER: But you’re not doing that. So why do you pull back? So there’s a difference between rude and clear or direct. And I think you people play into it.

I mean, just today it was really interesting. I don’t know if you saw Reese Witherspoon talked about AI in a very fine way. Like, “We need to learn about this because women are 25 percent the usage.” And she said it, and then everyone, all these people, especially when piled on, “How dare you do this.” And so I posted, I’m like, “I’m not sure what to tell you, but she’s telling you something that’s actually accurate.”

And I’ve been a huge critic of AI, and we need to regulate it, and AI slop sucks, etc. And I said, but she’s telling you women need to learn about it because it’s here, and you’re pretending it’s not here, and you’re dragging her for it, right?

And she and I had had a discussion about this because I did a morning show thing, and she’s like, “Every time I say something, I better not say anything.” I was like, “No, you’re right.” Like, why are you not articulate? Now she won’t say anything, right? Because she got dragged. Because what— well, she didn’t say what you say. I was like, “Oh, so you’re going to police the things she says? Like, are you kidding me? Like, she’s never going to be able to talk about it.”

And so I was sort of perplexed as to why she got— she got s* for saying something I say all the time, right? Which is like, why? Well, she was too peppy. I was like, “Oh really? Did she not smile enough? Like, what are you talking about?”

And I’m worried. And then they come at me. I was like, “All right, you want to f*ing throw down with me? Like, she’s right.” And so anyway, it’s just, it’s the same thing. It’s just—

GWYNETH PALTROW: She is right. And I think though that this is the other thing too. Certain women are expected to present in a certain way. And I think that’s why I’ve messed people up so much along the way, because I was this thing and then I evolved into something else. And I think, you know, Reese is so brilliant. She works across so many different platforms and she’s beautiful and she’s wealthy and she’s blonde. And that’s “How dare she.”

KARA SWISHER: How she can’t say because she’s wealthy and I was like, “Really?