The Dark Side of Happiness: Meik Wiking (Full Transcript)

Meik Wiking at TEDxCopenhagen

Here is the full text of happiness expert Meik Wiking’s talk: The Dark Side of Happiness at TEDxCopenhagen event conference.

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So according to the United Nations World Happiness Report, Denmark is the happiest country in the world.

Nevertheless, today before the strike of midnight, somebody in Denmark is going to take his or her own life. And another one again tomorrow, and the next day. This year, we will have more than 500 people who kill themselves, or three times as many as are killed in traffic.

Now these are the global suicide rates. Many people mistakenly believe that Denmark has some of the highest rates in the world. Fortunately, that’s not true. We rank somewhere in the middle.


But why is the happiest country in the world not at the bottom of the list when it comes to suicide?

I believe that part of the reason is that it’s more difficult to be unhappy in an otherwise happy society.

Now I study happiness. Every day I get up and I try to answer one simple question: Why are some people happier than others?


It gets me up in the morning but sometimes it also keeps me awake at night. I’m told when musicians see musical notes, they can hear that music in their mind. The same thing happens to me when I look at happiness data.

I don’t hear music but I do hear the comforting sounds of lives well lived. I hear the sound of joy, the feeling of connectedness and the sense of purpose.


But I also hear a silence. I hear the silence of those people that felt that life was not worth living. And I fear that their silence might be the dark side of our happiness.

So today I want to speak up for those that no longer have a voice, and today I want you to get to an understanding of why we need to start to address well-being inequality and bridge the gap.

So together we will look at income, jobs, loneliness, social media, and the suicide-happiness paradox.


But first, I want to address the skepticism that I know some of you hold towards happiness research. I saw some of you on the first row smiling when I mentioned I study happiness; that’s fine.

But let’s all be honest for a second. Show of hands: how many of you are skeptical towards happiness research, or our ability to measure happiness? All the way up. OK, so it’s around 50%. I’ve seen worse.

So let’s address the issues. I mean, I’m sure one of your concerns is that we might have different perceptions of what happiness is. You might think it’s one thing; I might think it’s another.


So first, we need to acknowledge that happiness is an umbrella term. We read different things into it. So what we do is we break it down. We look at the different components that happiness consists of.

So when we and the United Nations and the OECD and the different governments we try to measure happiness and we try to quantify quality of life, we look at, at least, three different dimensions.


First, we look at life satisfaction. So basically we ask people to take a step back and evaluate their lives: how satisfied are you all in all? Or how happy are you on a scale from zero to 10?

Or imagine the best possible life you could lead and the worst possible life you could lead, where do you feel you stand right now? This is the dimension that Denmark always do well on.

The second dimension is more about what kind of emotions we experience on an everyday basis. So if you take yesterday, were you stressed, angry, worried, depressed, or did you feel happy? Did you laugh and did you feel loved?


Of course, these two dimensions are linked. If you have an everyday which is characterized by a lot of positive emotions, you are more likely to experience or report higher levels of life satisfaction. This dimension, though, is much more volatile. We can see there is a weekend effect on this one.

So the third dimension is also called the eudemonic dimension. That’s just the ancient Greek word for happiness. And it refers to what Aristotle thought happiness was. And to him, the good life was the meaningful life. So people have a sense of purpose.

So let’s take the first dimension, and think about what your answer would be: if I asked you… and don’t worry; I’m not going to ask you to share it with guy next to you. But how happy are you all in all on a scale from zero to 10? How happy are you? You have a number in mind?

So what I would do is I would follow you and the rest of the audience and 10,000 people over the next 10 years, because over the next decade, some of you are going to get a promotion; congratulations. Some of you are going to get fired, and some of you are going to find the love of your life. And some of you are going to lose someone you love.

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