Full transcript of life and relationship coach Femi Ogunjinmi’s TEDx Talk: How To Tell If Someone Truly Loves You at TEDxXavierUniversity conference. This event occurred on November 1, 2018. Femi Ogunjinmi is the author of the book Revelations of Relationship: What You Don’t Know About Finding True Love and Sustaining Relationship.
NOTABLE QUOTE FROM THIS TALK:
“True love that is not backed up by the right action is not true love.”
Femi Ogunjinmi – Life & Relationship Coach
By show of hands, how many of you have ever gotten in a relationship because you felt that you were in love? Very good. Good.
How many of you’ve ever broken up and say to the person you don’t deserve me? Uh-huh.
As a matter of fact, I don’t even know how I fell in love with you in the first place. Oh, I know you were drunk in love, right?
In my line of field, as a relationship coach, clients come to me with their love problems. One client wants me to evaluate her relationship. She’s being with her boyfriend for over four years. There is no promise ring, no engagement ring, no conversation about wedding.
And on top of it is cheating on her. She wants to know if she should continue with the relationship or kick the guy to the curb.
So I asked her: “How many times has he cheated on you?”