Full text of memory expert Anthony Metivier’s talk: Two Easily Remembered Questions That Silence Negative Thoughts at TEDxDocklands conference. In this talk, the creator of the Magnetic Memory Method shares the two most powerful and immediate tools of self-transformation that are easy to remember and anyone can use them to create focus on the present moment and experience instant freedom from negative thinking.
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Anthony Metivier – Founder, Magnetic Memory Method
How would you like to completely silence your mind?
I know you came here to have better thoughts, not ‘no thoughts.’ Right? But wouldn’t it be nice to just shut them off, on demand, in a way that creates just complete being, just perfect wellness, on demand and in a way that lasts?
I figured out how to do this, and I’ll teach you the basics today. I only hope you don’t ignore this, because I went through years, decades of mental suffering, thanks to the blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, in my mind. And it didn’t help that I tried to shut those thoughts off by swallowing antidepressants and antipsychotics with alcohol, day after day after day for years.
But my biggest sin on top of all that nonsense was being a very committed atheist.
You see, I didn’t believe that turning your thoughts off was possible, because I thought it was connected to whoo-whoo. And I’d meditated for years but I certainly didn’t believe in something called PNSE or Persistent Non-Symbolic Experience, certainly not when my friend, Ben Fishel told me about this, while we were sitting outside of my favorite cafe in Brisbane.
And I had meditated for years, so I noticed that the Sun was shining. I noticed how good the hot chocolate coconut milk tasted, and I noticed that my favorite topics were on the table: meditation, philosophy, the truth, and what we can say about the truth in a way that makes it stick, so that everybody is on the same page, which would be bliss, right?
Well, despite all of Ben’s many qualifications in meditation, the science of it and his knowledge of the history of many spiritual traditions, I wasn’t having any of this.
“Pavement has no thoughts,” I said, and there is plenty of it; it’s everywhere. I want lots of thoughts, radiant thoughts, the most beautiful perfect thoughts, endless thoughts, truth thoughts.
Now, I have to take responsibility for my ignorance in the end, or at least my eye has to take responsibility. But I was also caught in a YouTube’s algorithm, you know, the kind you press a button and then for three days, three weeks, three months, three years, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, in this case, new atheism; science, science, science. If it isn’t scientific, it’s whoo-whoo; it’s the enemy.
So, Ben looks at me with this clear, crystal, present eyes and he says, “You have to read Gary Weber.” Always say, ready to completely knock this down, because I know what’s coming next.
But it turns out that Weber was a very good professional scientist, who himself needed a secular way to stop the thoughts in his mind, because they were torturing him for years, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And he needed something that would work without the need to believe in it.
So, I listened.
And Ben said, “Really, all that involves is memorizing a couple of things.”
And I’m a memory guy so I thought, game on, if that’s all it takes. You see, I’d used memory techniques for years; I used them in university to deal with depression and to deal with the brain fog from swallowing your pills with beer. I’ve also used them to create wonderful language learning experiences, and even wound up getting my wife with one of these stunts because her dad was smart enough to not let her daughter walk away with a guy who couldn’t have small talk in her mother tongue and sing a song at the wedding.
I even sat with a two times Guinness world record holder for memory and did not too bad for a guy who swallowed his pills with Guinness, on the way to the memory competition. It’s not really that funny but such was the extent of how I was trying to quiet my mind.
So I went home, looked up this Gary Weber guy, ordered a book called ‘Happiness Beyond Thought.’ Shortly after that, another one called ‘Evolving Beyond Thought’
And sure enough, this is what Dr. Weber says, “Memorize some Sanskrit, and your thoughts will start to turn down. And if you do it right, you can maybe even blow them out like a candle, so that they never start up again.”
Now that’s a very huge promise. But I thought, if I could even just go from volume 11 down to 10, this would be sweet mercy. And I was interested in this Sanskrit stuff, because I did a PhD and took some linguistics courses along the way, and this was attractive to me. I like to learn languages, as we heard today already, it’s not that hard.
So, I got into this Sanskrit; 3,500 years old at least, and many wonderful philosophical texts have been written in this language. It’s notorious for its precision, in cutting through the noise and getting to the heart of things.
But this work, it’s not really about the Sanskrit, it’s not even really about words; it’s about the ability of patterns, to neutralize patterns. And I found this out in a very interesting way.
Because at the back of ‘Evolving Beyond Thought,’ Weber has assembled all the Sanskrit he recommends you memorize, and he has these English statements with them that I took to be the English translations.
Memory guy, sure, but also a little bit of an absent-minded professor. So, I’m memorizing this Sanskrit and this English. [Sanskrit Phrases]. Clearly not English, is it?
But what a beautiful mistake! What a blessing in disguise. Because, as I’m working with this, day-in and day-out, this English is very simple.