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Raymond Tang on Philosophy of Water (Full Transcript)

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Raymond Tang

Raymond Tang grew up in Guangzhou, China. Inspired by his own cultural heritage, Raymond wants to help bridge the East and the West by applying ancient Chinese philosophy in the modern world.

Here is the full text of Raymond’s talk titled “Be Humble – and Other Lessons from the Philosophy of Water” presented at TED@Westpac in December 2017.

Raymond Tang – TED Talk TRANSCRIPT

You may know this feeling: you wake up to multiple unread notifications on your mobile phone. Your calendar is already packed with meetings, sometimes double- or triple-booked.

You feel engaged, you feel busy. In fact, you feel productive. But at the end of it all, something still feels missing. You try to figure out what it is. But before you do, the next day starts all over again.

That was how I felt two years ago. I felt stressed; I felt anxious. I felt a bit trapped. The world around me was moving very quickly. And I didn’t know what to do.

I started wondering to myself: How do I keep up with all this? How do we find fulfillment in a world that’s literally changing as fast as we can think, or maybe even faster?

I started looking for answers. I spoke to many people, I spoke to my friends, I spoke to my family. I even read many self-help books. But I couldn’t find anything satisfactory. In fact, the more self-help books I read, the more stressed and anxious I became.

It was like I was feeding my mind with junk food, and I was becoming mentally obese. I was about to give up, until one day, I found this “The Tao Te Ching: The Book of the Way and Its Virtue.” This is an ancient Chinese philosophy classic that was written more than 2,600 years ago.

And it was by far the thinnest and the smallest book on the bookshelf. It only had 81 pages. And each page had a short poem. I remember I flipped to one particular poem. Here it is. It’s beautiful, isn’t it? Let me read it out to you.

“The supreme goodness is like water.

It benefits all things without contention.

In dwelling, it stays grounded.

In being, it flows to depths.

In expression, it is honest.

In confrontation, it stays gentle.

In governance, it does not control

In action, it aligns to timing.

It is content with its nature

And therefore cannot be faulted.”

Wow! I remember when I first read this passage. I felt the biggest chills down my spine. I still feel that today, reading it to you guys. My anxiety and stress just suddenly disappeared.

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Ever since that day, I’ve been trying to apply the concepts in this passage to my day-to-day life. And today, I’d like to share with you three lessons.

I learned so far from this philosophy of water — three lessons that I believe have helped me find greater fulfillment in almost everything that I do.

Lesson 1: HUMILITY

The first lesson is about humility. If we think about water flowing in a river, it is always staying low. It helps all the plants grow and keeps all the animals alive. It doesn’t actually draw any attention to itself, nor does it need any reward or recognition. It is humble.

But without water’s humble contribution, life as we know it may not exist. Water’s humility taught me a few important things. It taught me that instead of acting like I know what I’m doing or I have all the answers, it’s perfectly.

OK to say, “I don’t know I want to learn more, and I need your help.” It also taught me that, instead of promoting my glory and success, it is so much more satisfying to promote the success and glory of others.

It taught me that, instead of doing things where I can get ahead, it’s so much more fulfilling and meaningful to help other people overcome their challenges so they can succeed.

With a humble mindset, I was able to form a lot richer connections with the people around me. I became genuinely interested in the stories and experiences that make them unique and magical.

Life became a lot more fun, because every day I’d discover new quirks, new ideas and new solutions to problems. I didn’t know before, all thanks to the ideas and help from others. All streams eventually flow to the ocean because it is lower than them.

Humility gives water its power. But I think it gives us the capacity to remain grounded, to be present, to learn from and be transformed by the stories of the people around us.

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