Full transcript of Crystal Robello’s TEDx Talk: Being an Introvert is a Good Thing at TEDxStMaryCSSchool Conference.
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I’m here today trying to be something I’m not, which is something I’ve been trying to do for two years now: write a TED Talk, share my ideas, talk in front of such a large group of people.
Now I know a lot of you are probably thinking, “She sounds a bit shy.” Or maybe, “She probably gets nervous easily.”
Yeah, all those things are 100% true, but why? To answer simply, I am an introvert.
So what is an introvert? An introvert is a quiet person that doesn’t like to talk very much and likes to keep their thoughts mostly to themselves. They’re the kind of person that goes home just to relax and have time to think. But that’s not to say that an outgoing person can’t be an introvert. Just as long as they enjoy the quiet time to get to themselves, they’re most likely an introvert to a certain extent.
So the main thing I want to address in this talk is that there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert. However society doesn’t see it in the same lighting.
Society has taught us that being an introvert is the worst thing you can be and that everyone should want to be extroverted. We’re told that being outgoing is good and being shy and quiet is bad. We’re told in elementary school we have to raise our hands, participate in class or we lose marks. Every year at parent-teacher interviews, my parents would hear the same thing, “Your daughter is very shy, she needs to learn to speak up more.”
I was told to share my voice whenever possible. As an introvert, those are some very hard standards to achieve. This is why I joined the TED Ed Club two years ago, to prove to not only myself but to everyone that I wasn’t shy. I could write a talk just like everyone else is doing it. No big deal.
Slight problem, I never wrote a talk. I couldn’t come up with a topic I was truly passionate about that I felt like I wanted to share with the world. I would show up to every meeting and watch my peers continue to develop their talks and I would get frustrated with myself. Why could they share their ideas so easily and I couldn’t even come up with a topic?
Now, looking back, I realize I have passions, I have views on the world and I have opinions. I just didn’t want to share any of them because I’m an introvert. But is there anything wrong with that?
Statistics say that 50% of the American population is made up of introverts. So society is telling 50% of Americans — about 160 million people — that they need to change who they are to be accepted, to be successful and to be happy. Keep in mind, within this large group of introverts are people such as: Elton John, Emma Watson, Michael Jordan, Audrey Hepburn, Albert Einstein, and so many more incredible, inspiring people.